The following will give you some idea what to expect. If you are already familiar with these types of events, then you probably know most of what follows. Nonetheless, please read through them so you understand your hosts expectations.

We hear this a lot from guys that have never attended a party like this before. That question seems much easier to answer than it really is. First, each party tends to have a unique dynamic which really depends on the exact mix of guys that come. But if you are thinking it is like a typical bathhouse, then think again.

Since we began doing these, the dynamic has really grown and matured as the "core" group has solidified. Most guys change into a towel right when they arrive. Things tend to be very social when guys first arrive, typically catching up on things that have happened since last month. It usually doesn't take long for things to turn to sex. It usually starts with some guys coupled off, maybe a third here or there. From that point, things are very fluid (no pun intended) with guys migrating from room to room, with two or three in a room, building to ten or twelve, and then things will shift to another area.

Some scenes will be fairly vanilla and tame while others would make Paul Morris or the Hot Desert Knights guys stand up and take notice! But no one ever feels pressured to do anything they don't want to. Sometimes things happen on pool floats, sometimes one of the beds, and sometimes the sling is like a non-stop amusement park ride.

After two or three hours of that, things will usually migrate to the kitchen or lanai where people "recharge" for round two.

If you are coming with the right attitude, probably. The guys that attend are typically in decent physical shape. Most of the guys check out each other's profiles before the parties so they know what to expect before you arrive. If you have lied about your age, body type, etc., then you might find that people already don't trust you and you may not be playing very much. Be careful about that. People are much more accepting when they don't think you might have other things you are hiding.

If you are planning on laying there waiting for people to come service you, you may be waiting a long time. In a bathhouse, you can frequently leave the door cracked and guys will walk in and breed you, but here, the guys usually make more of a connection. Notice at the begining we said "We are a group of guys." This isn't like a bathhouse with nameless, faceless cocks and holes. Guys here connect with each other, flirt with each other, cruise each other, and then rut like pigs in mud, but it all starts with the connection. Put yourself out there and you'll like how they respond.

Finally, don't be pushy. It's okay to look, touch, etc., but if he steps away, motions "No" with his head, or removes your hand when you touch him, move on to someone else. The hottest sex is when the guys are really into each other, and not everyone is into everyone else. And that's a good thing!

This really depends on a lot of factors, but typically the parties are scheduled once a month, and usually on Saturday evenings. You'll always know the schedule at least a month in advance once you join the group so you can plan.

Most parties will have an arrival time starting at 8:00PM. Because interruptions can break the mood, we will lock the door at 9:00PM and will not answer the door after that time unless you have made arrangements with the hosts in advance.

Most of the people that attend our parties are HIV+. These parties are a hot and exciting time for everyone. This is not a place for people to pass judgements on others. That being said, Florida law requires you to reveal your HIV status before engaging in sexual acts with others. Nonetheless, if you are about to fuck or get fucked, don't assume they are negative if it matters to you. ASK THEM before that dick pushes through that ass ring. If you want someone to cum in you or don't want them to cum in you, just speak up and let them know that. It's okay to say "no" if you feel uncomfortable about screwing with someone.

If you are a sexually active adult, you should be getting regular checkups that include a full STD screening. While many of the barebackers are HIV positive, if you know you have something else, please excuse yourself from that month's party until you get it treated and cleared up. There is always going to be a certain amount of risk in barebacking, but use common sense.

The idea of this party is to have a good time in the open with the other guests. If you don't enjoy having GROUP sex, then this is definitely not the party for you. Hiding somewhere in the house to fuck (like in the bathroom) is DEFINITELY frowned upon. The rest of us wanna see you in action! There are four bedrooms that you can fuck in, three have beds (one with a leg sling), and the fourth is just has a sling. No fucking in the bathrooms (unless you leave the door open and the light on). Oh, and if you are bringing your lover, please be open to sharing him with the other guys.

There is also a pool and spa--you are welcome to fuck in and around it, but please try to keep the noise down somewhat when you are outside--we don't want the neighbors to come checking on the moaning! Any rooms where the doors are closed are off limits to the party.

Finally, after you've registered on Men4Bareback, go to the FORUM and then Bareback Parties where you can see the date and time of the next party as well as RSVP for it.
NOTE: Occasionally the RSVP link won't work for a few accounts. If you have a problem with it, just leave Feedback with your username and I'll reset it and manually add it.

Please don't forget this part or we have no way of knowing you were actually wanting to come to our private parties.