While this list isn't intended to be exhaustive, we'll try to answer some of the most frequently asked questions. Most everything has been addressed on the "The Parties" page, but hopefully this will fill in any additional blanks.

While this isn't a question, this is the single most often thing we hear from guys that obviously haven't been to many, if any, sex parties. These are not gangbangs, these are sex parties. There are a lot of guys that come to the parties. Usually most are versatile which means just that...guys that want to fuck and to get fucked.

The next largest group is bottom guys. And most all of them want to "get all of the loads." Well, you've got competition...from the versatile guys as well as your fellow bottoms.

What can you do to increase your chances of getting loads? Well, being CLEAN is the first and foremost thing. If your butt is dirty, you'll seldom actually get a load. Most guys will shove their dick in, realize it isn't clean, and head for the shower leaving you with a lubed up ass in the air and nothing to fill it other than what you brought with you. If you're clean, that will help out a lot. This includes oral hygene as well.

Next, be sociable. Don't come in, strip, flop up in the sling and expect for tops to come in and service you. You need to work on earning those loads. Be nice, be social, let guys know you are interested, get on your knees and service the cock. That's a good start.

So if you are a bottom, yes, you're going to have competition. But still, these aren't gangbangs. Over 2/3 of the guys at the party are also wanting loads. If you want a gangbang, feel free to host one. You can post it under the bareback parties on M4BB and you'll probably find tops willing to come load you up.

Um, please see the above section. It's pretty much up to that specific party and how you interact there. You may get a bunch, or you may go home empty. We can tell you, we've gotten fucked for hours and not gotten a single load before. It happens.

Then don't. No means no. We have never had an incident with someone that pushed after it was made clear that you weren't interested. Be nice about it...no need to embarass anyone. I just turn away or block their hand and they get the message without having to call them out in front of everybody. If you're ugly about it, other guys will likely not even try.

We have had a good track record so far, but you need to know that if you are having SEX, you are exposing yourself to STDs and STIs. If you are having unprotected sex, you are greatly increasing that possibility.

To be honest, we've had a couple of experiences where guys have called after a party and told us that that they had a test and found they had something. We've sent out an alert and we've been very lucky so far.

But yes, there is always the possibility that you may get exposed to something, other than the obvious HIV, and if you attend one of the parties, you are accepting that risk.

We hear this one quite a bit. We do require that you get here when we start (or make special arrangements ahead of time for a late arrival), but you can leave when you want. Some guys come, get thier nut, and bail. That's cool. Others come, play for awhile, cum, get in the hot tub, eat a bite, socialize, then go for round two...or three...or four, and then they leave when the scheduled end time is. That's up to you.

Sorry, but we have a strict rule about this. Absolutely NO one stays. We have a very set pattern of what we do immediately after the party and the day after. If you are here, you will cramp our style. Please don't put us in the awkward position of having to say "No" to you.

Now, the good thing is we are only 20 minutes due North of the all Gay Parliament House on OBT. They have cheap rooms and you can easily get laid again when you get back to the hotel as well as another two or three the next morning before check out time. You can always invite us down the next morning to fuck again before check out...